Texas • Childfree • Monogamous

Plan love and wealth with one partner.

SlateViolet Reserve is a concierge matchmaking service for Texans who are serious about staying childfree, building assets, and creating a life with one person. No swiping; every introduction arrives with context, expectations, and a shared plan starter.

Invitation-only seat cap so members stay responsive.
Professional, lifestyle, and values vetting before any intro.
Aligned next steps: wealth prompts, conversation scripts, and a check-in after each date.

Apply to Reserve Still unsure? See the program

Rolling waitlist; response in 3–5 days. Candidacy + dossier build: $750. Event fees start at $500 and only bill after both approve the introduction.

Program snapshot

SlateViolet Reserve • Seat cap 14 (waitlist open)
Concierge dossiers over profiles—arrive with context, never swipes. Think of it as a private brief we hand only to your match.
Who we introduce
Texans who are proudly childfree, monogamous by choice, 18+, and moving with real momentum.
Guided decisions
Every dossier arrives with the first conversation arc, money prompts, and an exit tap so nobody has to improvise.

Signal over volume Data stewarded privately One intro at a time

Program goals

Personal dossier assembled within 48 hours once verification clears.
First intro goal: inside 30 days of dossier delivery.
Concierge check-ins log how it felt and what happens next.

How Reserve sets the table.

Signal-forward dossiers

Concierge packets read like a founder deck: lifestyle snapshot, wealth posture, boundaries, tone cues, even a quick vibe clip.

Highlights what you’re building and why you chose the childfree lane.
Mini “first convo” prompts keep the opening warm, not interview-y.

Money & lifestyle planning

You both walk in already aligned on cash flow, boundaries, and timelines—no awkward surprises after drinks.

Concierge recap after each meet so decisions don’t evaporate.
Playbooks for prenups, estate plans, and co-living when you’re ready.

Concierge follow-through

One match lead nudges calendars, answers “is this normal?” questions, and suggests exits so momentum stays kind.

Single inbox—no marketplace noise or ghosting spirals.
Quarterly office hours for couples who keep dating us.

From hello to debrief, one gentle nudge at a time.

Intake brief
We capture your dossier inputs, why you’re proudly childfree, and how you like evenings to flow so the packet sounds like you.
Verification call
Stripe Identity, employer or trade references, and an emotional readiness chat confirm everyone feels protected before anything moves.
Narrative edit
Concierge trims the dossier into a clarity deck: wealth prompts, tone cues, and venues you’d actually pick.
Introduction kit
Agenda, invoice, conversation starters, and a default exit ship together for approval so the date stays easy.
Concierge debrief
Within 24 hours we log tone, outcomes, and any safety notes so the next match compounds instead of resetting.

“We stole the clarity tricks from the best product launches—plain language, no mystery—and rewrote them for dating. When both sides walk in with context, everything feels intentional again.”

— SlateViolet Match Lead

People dating with intention here.

Builders with receipts

Engineers, medical and legal pros, operators, skilled trades, and boutique founders who keep their word.

Already living childfree and happy to share the why.
Monogamy-first, emotionally available, steady in communication.
Comfortable sharing lifestyle data privately so intros stay intentional.

What lands in your lane

Every introduction arrives with a clear state of readiness so you’re never walking into guesswork.

Concierge intros with mutual readiness scripts.
Quarterly prompts around wealth, lifestyle, and household planning.
Resources for agreements, estate work, travel, and living arrangements.

What never shows up

We keep the noise out so you only invest energy in aligned matches.

Public-facing profiles or swipe decks.
Volume metrics or gamified funnels.
Pressure to bend on being childfree or monogamous.

Safety, privacy, and gentle check-ins.

How we guard your story

Think vault entry, not content: we keep what moves the program forward and encrypt the rest.

Government ID, residency, and employment verified via Stripe Identity and vetted partners.
Private dossiers only—never a searchable member directory.
Financial prompts and lifestyle artifacts stay in encrypted storage with limited access.

Meetup instructions

First three touchpoints happen in vetted public venues with cameras.
Contact Kyle 30 minutes before, on arrival, and after departure.
Travel separately, share live location with a trusted contact, and pay for yourself.
Pause immediately if venue, guest list, or financial asks shift off brief.

Treat these as care signals—we do the same so concierge can step in fast if needed. Every reservation is booked by us to keep the venue list tight.

NOTICE TO TEXAS MEMBERS: WE DO NOT CONDUCT CRIMINAL BACKGROUND CHECKS ON EVERY MEMBER BEFORE ALLOWING MEMBER-TO-MEMBER COMMUNICATION.

Ready to Reserve your seat?

Applications take about 10 minutes. We respond with next steps, verification requirements, and a preview of your dossier so you always know what happens before the first introduction.

Apply to Reserve Still unsure? See the program Email Kyle

Candidacy + dossier build: $750 • Event fees start at $500 and only bill after both approve the intro. Questions first? Email kyle@slateviolet.com and I will reply within two business days.