Reserve deep dive

Still deciding? Here’s the concierge brief.

Reserve is the private lane for Texans who already chose a childfree, monogamous life and want me (Kyle) choreographing every introduction so nothing feels improvised. This is the page you read when you need the full story before tapping submit.

  • Personal dossier + readiness script delivered within 48 hours of verification clearing.
  • Agenda, venue guidance, and safety cue agreed before either of you leaves the house.
  • Seat cap stays at 14 with a rolling waitlist so responses land inside hours, not days.

Our goal: pair you with a loving, values-aligned partner who is moving at your pace. Dossier in 48 hours. First match target under 30 days.

If we accept you, it’s because we know we can help.

Rolling waitlist (response in 3–5 days) • Seat cap 14 with one-in-one-out admissions • Candidacy + dossier build: $750 • Event fees start at $500 and only bill after both approve the introduction.

When you hesitate, here’s how we steady you.

Every skeptic question gets a concrete answer so you can decide with a clear head.

“I don’t have hours to vet.”

  • Government ID, residency, employment, and references verified before we even say a name out loud.
  • We draft the dossier and readiness agenda—you edit, not originate.
  • Every intake answer becomes a data point; compatibility equations flag high-potential matches and I hand-pick who moves forward based on scores, preferences, and feedback.

“What if it's awkward?”

  • Awkward happens when people wing it—every kit ships with conversation starters, wealth prompts, and a default exit so you never walk in cold.
  • Concierge texts both sides before, during, and after so pacing stays calm.
  • We brief both members on pacing expectations and log follow-up decisions within 24 hours so no one is left hanging.

“Is it worth the spend?”

  • Each intro starts with verified lifestyle, wealth, and readiness data—no more blind dates with missing context.
  • One concierge replaces the time and money burn of dozens of low-quality app meetups.
  • Event fees start at $500 and only bill after both approve the kit; bespoke prep, safety monitoring, and post-date debriefs come standard.

Inside Reserve, you get.

Every deliverable keeps the lane intentional so introductions feel planned, not improvised, compounding into calm decisions and long-term wins.

Founder-grade dossiers

Lifestyle stats, why you’re proudly childfree, wealth posture, tone cues, and a quick vibe clip.

  • Includes first-convo prompts so the opening never feels interview-y.
  • Concierge refreshes it the moment your goals evolve.

Shared wealth runway

Cash-flow, boundary, and timeline notes so you both know how life together should feel.

  • Guided worksheets turn into a mutual “how we live” plan.
  • Post-intro recaps lock decisions before momentum fades.

Single point of contact (Kyle)

I own calendars, nudges, exits, and tone for both members.

  • No marketplace inbox—just a direct Slack or SMS thread.
  • Quarterly office hours if you want scripts, boundaries, or replans.

Risk-managed intros

Every meeting includes a vetted public venue, safety phrase, and concierge monitoring.

  • Default exit + follow-up instructions keep you protected.
  • We only move to the next intro after a full debrief.

Who Reserve is built for.

The lane stays calm when every seat is filled with people moving at the same pace.

Builders with receipts

Engineers, medical and legal pros, skilled trades, and boutique founders who do what they promise.

  • Already living childfree by choice and happy to share the why.
  • Monogamy-first, emotionally available, and steady in communication.
  • Comfortable sharing lifestyle data privately so intros stay intentional.

Baseline requirements

  • Texas residency proof (lease, deed, utility, or TX ID).
  • 18+ with consistent employment, business ownership, or skilled trade practice.
  • Already living proudly childfree and committed to monogamy today and long term.
  • Ready to verify ID, residency, references, and hop on a safety call.

Probably not a fit if

  • You want or are undecided about children.
  • You prefer multiple partners or open models.
  • You resist sharing context with a concierge before meeting someone new.
  • You expect a swipe deck or high-volume funnel.
  • You need constant introductions instead of one intentional lane.

Know you’re a fit?

Skip the scroll and start the candidacy flow. Candidacy + dossier build: $750. Introductions: $500 after both approve the kit. We’ll verify documents and show you the dossier draft before the first introduction fee ever hits.

Logistics, pricing, and cadence.

Clarity upfront keeps everyone confident: you know what lands in your lane, what it costs, and how to reach us between intros.

Candidacy & dossier build

  • $750 one-time fee covers the intake interview, document review, and writing your dossier + readiness script.
  • Your intake answers become data points for match scoring.

Introductions & milestones

  • Introductions: $500 each, billed after both approve the kit. If we can’t deliver or fix the intro within 30 days, we refund the fee.
  • Special progress sessions available, quoted upon booking.

Optional add-ons

  • Transportation coordination (private transport extends to both members if purchased).
  • Custom flowers/gifts or venue experiences.
  • Armed security or special requests (quoted per event).

Communication cadence

  • Slack or SMS channel with me for day-to-day nudges.
  • Weekly office hours if you want coaching on scripts or boundaries.
  • Emergency line monitored live during intros (response < 5 minutes).

From hello to debrief, one gentle nudge at a time.

One process, repeated calmly: capture your story, verify, align, plan, monitor, and document.

  1. Intake brief

    We capture your story, why you’re childfree, and how you prefer evenings to flow. Calendar holds and dossier prompts start here.

  2. Verification call

    Safety call + ID, residency, employment, and references confirm everyone feels protected. We set safety phrases and exit cues now.

  3. Alignment lab

    Concierge plays back values, wealth prompts, and pacing notes so the dossier sounds like you. Post-event summaries feed back into this lab.

  4. Introduction kit

    You approve the agenda + invoice together; the kit includes scripts, venue guidance, default exits, and confirmation texts to both members.

  5. Concierge debrief

    Within 24 hours we log tone, outcomes, next steps, safety notes, waitlist adjustments, and match score updates before the next cycle.

Questions we hear a lot.

How fast do you respond?

Intake + verification questions get a reply within one business day. Active match coordination is same-business-day, with SMS nudges for day-of logistics. During scheduled intros the safety line is monitored live, target response under five minutes.

Will you share my info without asking?

No. Your dossier, photos, and identifying data stay private unless you explicitly approve a share or we’re legally compelled. We only surface you to members who have passed ID, residency, employment, and readiness checks.

Do you support my orientation?

Yes. Any orientation is welcome. Some cohorts take longer if the candidate pool is smaller, but we curate the 14-seat cap to stay balanced before we accept new members.

What if I need to pause or a match falls through?

If a planned intro collapses and we can’t deliver a replacement within 30 days, the event fee is refunded. If you pause for more than a month, you rejoin the waitlist, but prepaid introductions return to the priority line when there’s an opening. If you meet someone outside Reserve, we’re thrilled—come back if you ever need another seat.

How do you handle safety concerns?

Any safety report pauses the accused member immediately while we investigate. If they’re cleared, they resume; if not, they’re removed without refund. Multiple false reports are treated the same way.

What’s your background?

Training across de-escalation, sexual assault prevention and response, advanced first aid/CPR, suicide prevention, operational risk management, and information security (Secret clearance held). Led safety programs that required faster-than-five-minute escalations. Helped two couples course-correct by keeping money + values conversations honest.

Safety, privacy, and gentle check-ins.

How we guard your story

Think vault entry, not content: we keep what moves the program forward and encrypt the rest.

  • Government ID, residency, and employment verified via Stripe Identity and vetted partners.
  • Private dossiers only—never a searchable member directory.
  • Financial prompts and lifestyle artifacts stay in encrypted storage with limited access.

Meetup instructions

  • First three touchpoints happen in vetted public venues with cameras.
  • Contact Kyle 30 minutes before, on arrival, and after departure.
  • Travel separately, share live location with a trusted contact, and pay for yourself.
  • Pause immediately if venue, guest list, or financial asks shift off brief.

Treat these as care signals—we do the same so concierge can step in fast if needed. Every reservation is booked by us to keep the venue list tight.

NOTICE TO TEXAS MEMBERS: WE DO NOT CONDUCT CRIMINAL BACKGROUND CHECKS ON EVERY MEMBER BEFORE ALLOWING MEMBER-TO-MEMBER COMMUNICATION.

Ready to Reserve your seat?

Applications take about 10 minutes. We respond with next steps, verification requirements, and a preview of your dossier so you always know what happens before the first introduction.

Candidacy + dossier build: $750 • Event fees start at $500 and bill after mutual approval.